This Second Sunday of Advent we looked at the story of Mary going to stay with Elizabeth.
To make sure that Mary and Elizabeth have room to speak, Luke tells an earlier story where you find out that the priest in the house, Zechariah, is silenced. With Zechariah out of the way; we have the rare opportunity to hear from the women for a change. And what a change they dream of!
"In those days”, Luke writes. “Those days” are the first days of Mary's pregnancy - of the pregnancy of a young girl. of the pregnancy of a young and unmarried girl living in a small village where such a thing would bring untold shame - no, really not untold, because there would be frequently told gossip, that would shame her, her family, and her child for ever. In those days, Mary heads for the far away hills, fleeing the village gossip.
I wonder how Mary must have felt as she made that journey to Judea?
Was she filled with self-doubt, her hopes crushed by her own family? Did she question her own sanity? Maybe the angel was a dream, maybe her mind had played tricks on her.
Maybe she felt angry. How could they treat her this way, how could God let them treat her this way? She felt so alone.
And I’m not so sure seeing cousin Elizabeth was seen as good news to her. Elizabeth was also pregnant, yes, but instead of being shame filled, her shame ended the same way Mary's had begun. Would Elizabeth lecture her as her parents had, but with the added smugness of her righteous pregnancy? Or would her cousin just shake her head and pity her, like Joseph…doubting her story altogether as if she were a foolish child?
But here is what Mary didn’t yet know, Elizabeth had her own troubles: Here she was expecting her first born later in life, her husband the victim of a stroke, unable to work his turn in the Temple. And now, her aunt was sending their pregnant teenage daughter down to her home so she could handle the shame, not to mention the normal challenges of pregnancy and birth.
Here two women meet at a point of crisis in both of their lives. Here two women meet sharing pregnancies plagued by questions of "How?" and "What now?" Here two women meet a little later when the angels have departed and the long wait has set in and they are on their own to muddle through somehow the meantime between promise and fulfillment.
Young and old, they have both had hard times with their families. I can imagine Elizabeth resenting having to take care of cousin Mary and husband Zechariah at this very time in her life when - at last! at last! - somebody ought to be pampering her.
Who needed this cloud over her joy? I can imagine them resenting each other,
and in their physical and emotional state, sometimes the anger boiling over with harsh words and short tempers.
But no, the moment she sees Mary, the first words out of Elizabeth’s mouth are a blessing, probably the first blessing Mary has heard since telling anybody she was pregnant: "Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb. And why has this happened to me, that the mother of my Lord comes to me?"
Can you imagine how Mary felt when she heard those words? All the anger, all the curses, all the confusion, all the shame fell away when she heard those first words: "Blessed are you, Mary!"
And I think here is the lesson for us this day. Never underestimate the power you have to bless people in God's name. Never refuse the opportunity to share God's renewing love with those the world wants to shame and condemn. Never miss the opportunity to offer encouragement to those whose hopes have been beaten down "a little later" by life.
And I think here is the lesson for us this day. Never underestimate the power you have to bless people in God's name. Never refuse the opportunity to share God's renewing love with those the world wants to shame and condemn. Never miss the opportunity to offer encouragement to those whose hopes have been beaten down "a little later" by life.
What we have here is a preview of the church, a model of what we do for one another.
We come here to renew our hope in God when life is beating us up. And in spite of our own struggles and sorrows, we can say to another, "Blessed are you!" Here we wait, not in fear but with a sense of expectation. God is doing something among us.
New birth is about to come, God's new creation. We can see the first signs of it, feel it stirring within us. God will bring it to pass. It won't be long now.
And when the wait is long, and we get weary, our hopes dim, our dreams die, we are about ready to give up, somebody renews us with a blessing from God. This is when the church becomes the church, the body of Christ, the family of God. Not arrogance, but humility: this is church. We are not going to go through this alone. God has given us each other to reassure, to restore, to bless us as we wait for the day when God's promise will be fulfilled…This is church!
God has made us pregnant with the belief that justice and righteousness will prevail, that mercy and peace will win through, that love will overcome evil…This is church!!
God has given us the vision of a world where people aren't judged by the color of their skin or limited by the class into which they are born, determined by your sex or unwelcomed because of sexual orientation…
where differences aren't solved by violence
and children need not fear, or their parents fear for them,
a world where every child has enough to eat,
every youth has opportunity for education,
and every adult can make some
meaningful contribution to the common good.
God has made us pregnant with the possibilities, and so we hope, and so we trust, and so we love.
Mary's song to end the story is compared by Robert Redman to "an aria in an opera or a duet in a musical," as it "stops the action of the Gospel in order to celebrate the greatness and covenant faithfulness of God." Yes, "God is great," Mary proclaims, but wonder of wonders and "equally important – and harder to believe for many in our day – God is good" (Feasting on the Word).
In their beautiful and instructive book, The First Christmas, Marcus Borg and John Dominic Crossan call Mary's elegantly exuberant prayer, an "overture" to Luke's Gospel in which he sounds important themes that will appear again and again. In Luke's Gospel, the emphasis on women, the marginalized, and the Holy Spirit are all evident in the birth narratives, including the one we read this week. Mary, filled with the Holy Spirit, gives voice to those who are lowly, like the shepherds to whom the angels later announce the birth of Jesus.